Love Unlocked
Why You Feel Guilty for Having Boundaries
If saying no fills you with guilt, you're not broken. You've just been taught that your needs matter less than everyone else's comfort.
May 28, 2026
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Surfing My Father's Childhood Break in Oahu
Sixty-one years after my dad learned to surf at a military beach on Oahu, I paddled out at the same break. Sobriety made sure I actually felt it.
May 27, 2026
Love Unlocked
Stop Performing Love and Start Practicing It
Most of us have been performing love our whole lives without realizing it. Here's what it looks like to actually practice it instead.
May 26, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Balancing Work and Travel in Sobriety
Working while traveling sober is possible, but only if you treat your recovery like the non-negotiable it is. Here's what that looks like in practice.
May 25, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
What Tiger Sharks Taught Me About Facing Fear
Floating cageless in the open ocean with 20 sharks taught me something that 19 years of sobriety already knew: you don't have to face your fears alone.
May 21, 2026
Love Unlocked
Alone vs. Lonely: Learning to Be Your Own Company
Most people jump into relationships to escape themselves. Here's why learning to be alone without being lonely is the foundation of everything.
May 20, 2026
Love Unlocked
What Self-Worth Actually Looks Like in Practice
Self-worth isn't what you say in the mirror. It's what you do when no one is watching, and most of us are getting it wrong.
May 19, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Why Adventure-Based Recovery Works
Sitting in a circle talking about your feelings has its place. But there's something that happens when you push your body to its edge in nature that no therapy room can replicate.
May 18, 2026
Love Unlocked
Why 'We Need to Talk' Never Goes Well
Four words that kill the conversation before it starts. Here's what to say instead if you want real connection, not defensiveness.
May 14, 2026
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Who Are You When Recovery Isn't the Main Plot
After years sober, the recovery story starts to fade. What fills the space when sobriety stops being your whole identity?
May 13, 2026
Love Unlocked
Your Attachment Style Is Not a Life Sentence
Your attachment style shaped how you love, but it doesn't have to stay that way. Here's what shifting toward secure attachment actually looks like.
May 12, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Standing on Living Earth: Hiking Kilauea Volcano in Hawaii
The Big Island is still growing. Standing at the edge of Kilauea at night, lava glowing below and stars overhead, reminded me how sobriety lets you actually feel the world.
May 11, 2026
Love Unlocked
The Difference Between Being Loved and Being Needed
Being needed can feel like love. It's not. Here's how to tell the difference and why it matters for every relationship you're in.
May 7, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
The Compound Effect of Just Showing Up
The big moments in sobriety aren't the dramatic ones. They're the quiet, compounding result of showing up again and again when nobody's watching.
May 6, 2026
Love Unlocked
Why Being Seen Feels So Dangerous (and Why It's Worth It)
We all want to be truly known. Most of us are terrified of it. Here's what's actually happening when vulnerability feels like a threat.
May 5, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
When Showing Up Leads to Swimming with Pilot Whales
Three days ago I was in Bali. Today I'm floating off the Big Island of Hawaii with twenty pilot whales gliding past me. None of this happens without sobriety.
May 4, 2026
Love Unlocked
How to Stay Whole While Deeply in Love
The deepest relationships don't ask you to disappear. Here's how to love fully without losing who you are in the process.
April 30, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
What a Sober Companion Actually Does and Why It Matters
A sober companion isn't just someone who tags along on trips. Here's what the work actually looks like and why it changes lives.
April 29, 2026
Love Unlocked
Why We Confuse Intensity for Love
That electric, can't-eat, can't-sleep feeling isn't always love. Sometimes it's just your nervous system on fire.
April 28, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Dry vs Sober: Why Removing the Substance Isn't Enough
Putting down the drink or drug doesn't mean you're free. Here's the honest difference between being dry and actually recovering.
April 27, 2026
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Hiring a Sober Companion for a Family Member: What You Should Know
When someone you love is struggling, hiring a sober companion can feel like the right move. Here's how to know if it is, and what to look for before writing a check.
April 24, 2026
Love Unlocked
Love Without Ownership: Partnership vs. Control
If you've ever confused a tight grip with devotion, this is for you. Real love doesn't possess. It chooses, freely, every day.
April 23, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Whale Sharks in Isla Mujeres: The Leap That Changed Everything
I jumped into the open ocean off Isla Mujeres with yellow fins and zero experience. What happened next shaped the rest of my life.
April 22, 2026
Love Unlocked
Love as a Performance: When Did You Stop Being Real?
Most of us aren't loving freely. We're performing love, and we've been doing it so long we forgot there's another way.
April 21, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
How Sobriety Changed My Relationship With Fear
Fear kept me small for years. Sobriety didn't remove it, but it changed everything about how I move through it.
April 20, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Why Bali Became My Sober Home Base
Bali didn't just become a place I lived. It became a mirror. Here's what 19 years sober and a life on the road taught me about coming home to yourself.
April 16, 2026
Love Unlocked
The Danger of Labeling Yourself in Relationships
The moment you say 'I'm just bad at relationships,' you give yourself permission to stop showing up. Here's why your labels are lying to you.
April 15, 2026
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Finding Freedom in Sobriety Without Losing Your Edge
Think sobriety means playing it safe? I've swum with whales, hit 50+ countries, and found my edge got sharper without drink or drug.
April 14, 2026
Love Unlocked
Why You Keep Attracting The Same Partner
If your relationships keep ending the same way, the common thread isn't bad luck. It's a pattern worth understanding.
April 13, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
How to Travel Internationally in Early Sobriety
International travel in early recovery sounds risky. It doesn't have to be. Here's how to navigate airports, foreign cultures, and your own mind while staying grounded.
April 10, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
What to Expect on a Sober Companion Trip
You've decided to invest in a sober companion trip. Now what? Here's what the experience actually looks like from day one to the final goodbye.
March 31, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Discover the Hidden Benefits of Sober Travel for Deeper Connections and Fun
Travel often brings to mind images of lively parties, clinking glasses, and late-night celebrations. Many people believe that without alcohol, travel loses its excitement. So the question I always hear becomes, 'Is sober travel fun?'
March 25, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Sober Companion vs. Sober Coach vs. Sponsor: What's the Difference?
People throw these terms around interchangeably, but they're not the same thing. Here's what actually separates a sober companion, a sober coach, and a sponsor.
March 17, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
Top Destinations for Sober and Drug-Free Travelers Seeking Adventure
Finding yourself alcohol/drug free? Awesome! Traveling without alcohol or drugs can be a refreshing way to explore the world with clarity and purpose, but it can also be challenging to know which is the best spot.
March 12, 2026
Nomadic Addictt
How to Stay Sober While Traveling: Tips for Alcohol-Free Holiday Adventures
The holiday season often stirs up a variety of emotions. For those dedicated to sobriety, it can feel like navigating a tightrope lined with spiked eggnog and champagne toasts. This guide will help serve as your travel companion.
December 5, 2024
Nomadic Addictt
The Art of Traveling Sober
It's funny, I've been traveling solo and sober for over a decade now, and I realize as I created this page and started blogging, that I sort of take that for granted. For a sober travel blogging website, I think it's safe to say I'm doing a poor job there. So, let's fix that now.
November 26, 2023
Nomadic Addictt
Sober Vacation Travel Tips
Maureen Coulter of the sober travel blog The Temperate Traveler offers some advice for folks who are interested in sober vacation tips, whether you are in recovery, sober-curious or just not a fan of alcohol.
August 4, 2023
Nomadic Addictt
Navigating Life's Good and Bad: Life is in Session
It's important to note, and I feel called to share for whoever is out there who may need to hear it, that social media photos and videos are always people's highlights. Rarely do they offer the full story or picture.
March 2, 2023
Nomadic Addictt
To Compare Is To Despair: You vs. You, Our Only Competition
I've often found myself questioning why I, at times, feel uncomfortable, unsettled, or even frustrated by others' success around me. Did they do anything to me? No. Then why the uncomfortable feeling?
February 21, 2023
Nomadic Addictt
A Balanced Life: Is it Possible?
One question I get asked a lot is 'How do you have energy for all this? All your travels?' The answer lives in understanding what balance actually means for you specifically.
February 12, 2023
Nomadic Addictt
Travel Planning: To Plan or Not to Plan
To Plan or Not to Plan? That is the Question. We all know someone that is super detail-oriented and has their entire trip planned before they even get on the plane. Whatever works for you, there isn't necessarily a 'right' way.
January 6, 2023
Nomadic Addictt
Travel and Money: How Can I Travel and Not Go Broke?
One of the most common questions when planning any trip is 'How can I afford to travel?'. The key is to find a balance that works for you and maximize your opportunities.
December 1, 2022
Nomadic Addictt
I AM: Affirmations and The Power of The Mind
Selfish. Narcissistic. Spoiled. Entitled. Do you ever find yourself or others labeling you with names like these? What I tell myself is what I am, what I become.
July 16, 2022
Nomadic Addictt
Is it Safe to Dive with Tiger Sharks?
Have you ever found yourself snorkeling, diving, or swimming in the ocean where you look around feeling like something is watching you? Since Jaws debuted in 1975, many of us have been captivated with the presence of sharks.
July 10, 2022
Nomadic Addictt
Tips and Tricks for Traveling: How Do I Get Started and Why Do I Want to?
Getting started can feel like you're looking up at a large mountain. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Fear not my friends, the view is always best after the climb.
April 4, 2022